Okay so instead of relying on the old fashioned method of meeting someone organically, I signed up for Catholic match. I have been on it for the past 2 years and tonight I deactivated my account.
Truth be told, I have nothing against online dating, but I really prefer the old fashioned get to know someone, venture into a date, and maybe a few dozen more then...do it...make it a long lasting life commitment.
I've been praying for my future husband something awful and for myself to be the person that he needs. Up until tonight I thought I knew what I was feeling about this part of my life, but I am not going to trust just my own emotions. I am going to let God do what He needs to do and I am going to do what pleases Him.
Simple plan: Follow God's plan.
I am not meant to be online looking for someone special. I am going to meet him, if I haven't already, and it is going to be done the good old-fashioned way:hanging out, getting to know each other, taking a leap of faith and going on dates.
We will see each other at our best and our worst. We will work through it all and decide we care enough to choose each other not because of anything else but because we make each other better people and we challenge each other to think openly but never to compromise our values.
It will be an amazing and adventure. It may not happen within the next year, but I know it will be exactly what it needs to be for both of us. We will conquer the world and travel with each other to many unknown unexplored realms of life.
This will not just be a fantasy; this will be more. It will be all genres wrapped up in one because there will be romance, comedy, tragedy, coming of age, sci-fi, fantasy...etc and there will be games learned, music heard, and love so much freakin' love...
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